Husband Threatens To Take The Baby, What Should I Do?


married 3.5 yrs, kid 2 yrs, husband US citizen, I got conditional green card through marriage. I study phd genetics now in USA with scholarship and husband works at KFC.
He hates me, he is so negative, I have even become an stepford wife for him, he still can’t give any love to me, he is saying to me that he wants to leave and take the baby and I have to give him child custody because he wants to take the baby to germany to his parents.
he tells me that he is doing me a favor by not deporting me if I give him my baby, he is really nasty and always asks for more and more money from me and my father. I don’t know what to do, I am really scared.
I took him to court once, but he lied his way through the whole court with his lawyer and got away with it so easily. I don’t even trust authorities. I don’t know what to do.

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5 Comments

  1. AJ
    Posted October 21, 2009 at 6:40 pm | Permalink

    Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) National Domestic Violence Hotline. They are the experts and have heard it all. They can help you with advice and resources.
    Get the he!! out of there as soon as you can.

  2. Deborah G
    Posted October 21, 2009 at 6:40 pm | Permalink

    Very frustrating situation.
    You need to know your rights contact child services and ask them for advice and or who to contact- this is necessary.
    There definitely is something driving his serious threats and behavior.
    Most likely a sense of failure.
    Please get the movie Fireproof- it’s something both of you need to see.
    Even if he won’t watch it, you watch it.

  3. iM Bl00dIn
    Posted October 21, 2009 at 6:40 pm | Permalink

    as long as a mother is fit to care for the child he cant take the child away…if you are proven to be an unfit mother then he can….and if your child is a us citizen and you are caring for the child then you wont get deported for the benifit to the child

  4. tanner
    Posted October 21, 2009 at 6:40 pm | Permalink

    Get one of your local phone books, and look up attorney’s. Most of them offer a free consultation. So find one that does, then go in and tell them what’s going on and they will let you know if you have any chance or what your chances/options are.
    best wishes! I will pray for you that he doesn’t take your baby away.

  5. success coach
    Posted October 21, 2009 at 6:40 pm | Permalink

    You need to get him to change & the way to do that is to see him wanting to be with you & the baby where you are at. You loved him once & saw something good so see that now. It will change & pray for him to have good mental health.


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